One more week

Hola,

Finally someone has explained to us what is going on with Belicia's birth certificate. After Gloria called this morning and said it would not be in today, I told Jim we need to speak with Racquel and have her explain to us exactly what's going on. After a couple of calls, this is what it boiled down to... they do offer express service here in Colombia through DHL, but it only works with major cities. Racquel told us that the city she is from, Mocoa, is in an extremely poor and dangerous region and services such as DHL do not go there. One option they use to send documents is the driver of a passenger bus. Since the orphanage did not have a driver going to Mocoa last Tuesday, they had to send our finalized adoption papers down using the mail system. Our papers were just received today, but were sent out last Tuesday. Racquel did speak with someone there that said they did have our papers and would pull her birth certificate and put it on a bus today. The bus was supposed to leave 6:00 p.m. tonight, drive 18 hours straight through, and arrive in Medellin at noon. Since the girl in Mocoa that was supposed to get our papers on the bus left the office to make deliveries and then went straight home, Racquel is not 100% sure whether she got our packet on the bus. Racquel does not have her cell number, but will call her first thing in the morning. As long as the documents are here tomorrow or Friday, we will be home Thursday. We just feel so much better now that we understand exactly what is going on. This afternoon after lunch, the servers were asking us what's going on and when are we heading to Bogota. As we were explained this to them, we mentioned that she's from Mocoa. Their eyes got big and two of them said, "SHE'S... Mocoa? AAHH, now understand why take long... very far, very poor, very dangerous".

Well, that's about it. Most of our day was consumed with taking care of this and calling Delaware/Maryland to reschedule many appointments that were scheduled next week. Hopefully tomorrow night we'll be in Bogota; we're ready for a change in scenery!!

Chao,
Captive in Colombia

"Captive in Colombia" won

These are pictures taken with my smaller digital camera from about 1 1/2 weeks ago when we went to the El Tesoro Mall. I couldn't find my cable that I needed in order to download the pictures. These are some of the rides the girls enjoyed that are located in the center of the mall.



Far cry from the Salisbury or Dover Mall, huh?



Jim and Bethany racing; she won because he got stuck!!

Hola,

A big thanks to all of you that posted comments or sent emails voting for our new name. We have a winner... Captive in Colombia. It was very close between that one and "Going Mad in Medellin".

We didn't do much today. Jim took the girls to the pool this afternoon while I packed some more. While I packed, I turned on some Joyce Meyer broadcasts on my laptop. She said something that I've heard before, but it hit home harder this time. She talked about how we talk about the faith we have in God, but how can we truly have faith until we are put into situations that force us to put that faith into action. That is so true... when our prayers are answered quickly and we are rescued quickly from situations, we never get the opportunity to exercise our "faith muscles". God has brought us through different situations throughout the years which have helped grow our faith. I believe with all my heart that He is growing us to a new level of faith in order for our testimony and walk with Him to be that much stronger. I remember a Wednesday night years ago, when Laurel Wesleyan was still in the old building, Pastor Todd asked us what was our favorite attribute of God... I remember that my answer was, "His faithfulness". It still is.

Hopefully tomorrow will be the day we receive her birth certificate. If we make it to Bogota tomorrow, I'm not sure where we will be staying, so I'm really not sure of internet access. Hopefully I'll be able to continue our blog once we get there, but if not, you'll know it's because I'm having trouble getting a connection. I should be able to connect without trouble, but you never know.

Going to turn in...

Chao,
"Captive in Colombia"

After three days staying in, we got out today!

Hola,

I know, I know... very bizarre sculptures. Today we visited the Museum of Antioquia here in Medellin. We strolled through the inside for awhile. Bethany enjoyed it, but Belicia held on for about half way and then became bored. Of course it was hard to understand Gloria as she tried to explain some of the art, but from what we could gather, there is one artist that portrays all of his sculptures (above) and paintings, how shall I say.... oversized. There was an entire wing that displayed his paintings... everything and everyone was comically oversized. I didn't take any pictures inside, but the photos above give you an idea of what we saw.

Okay, now for the bad news... Gloria said that she spoke with Fanny this morning. Fanny said that she called the people that are retrieving Belicia's birth certificate and they said that we should have it Wednesday morning. Timing will be everything; if we do not apply for Belicia's visa by Thursday, we won't be home until later next week (remember, The US Embassy is closed on Fridays). Come to find out, Monday is a holiday, All Saints Day, which will possibly hold things up another day.

At breakfast this morning, we met some very interesting people. The buffet bar was out of syrup for Bethany's french toast and a gentleman noticed that I needed help asking for some. He asked me in English what I needed and then found a server and asked in Spanish for me. Come to find out, he was born in Cuba and was in the Peter Pan program when he was 13 years old (I believe he said it was a program for Cuban refugees... again, hard to understand with the Spanish accent) and was adopted by a family in Iowa (he looked to be around 50, so it was many years ago). He was raised in Iowa, but now lives in Bogota. He was extremely helpful in giving us some ideas of places to visit and eat while in Bogota. While I was speaking with him, Jim met a family, from various places throughout the States, that was here for a wedding. They know several people that have adopted internationally and was very interested in ours. They said the same thing we keep hearing about how Americans are terrified of Colombia. They all said their friends thought they were crazy to come here. There was a large group of them... mostly in their 60's and they said that they have had a fabulous time here.

Jim got a haircut today in the hotel salon. You would expect at a resort such as this sky high prices, but no. Check out these prices... a man's haircut is only $10, manicure is only $5, and a pedicure is only $8. When Jim was asking at the front desk the price of pedicures (for me, not him), he questioned the $8 (because it's so cheap) and they told him that they realize it's a little expensive and in town you can get one for $5... that's amazingly low. Jim keeps telling me to get one, but I just haven't felt like it. He wanted to schedule a massage for me (only $10... again, amazingly low), but it's so uncomfortable having these kinds of services done when you can't understand what they are saying and they can't understand you.

We asked Gloria about going to the coffee plantation. She said that it was still not safe to go and Racquel did not want us travelling far. This was the first time she told us how far the plantation is... two (2) hours away. We had no idea it was that far, obviously we would not want to go. We thought maybe 15-20 out of town... well, at least we're enjoying the coffee!! While at the museum's gift shop, we tried a marmalade made with a bit of coffee... yummy!!! They were out of stock (just the sample was available), so when we went to the grocery store, we found two (2) jars of the same brand... considerably cheaper than the gift shop. We also found a bag of these coffee candies that they give out at the mall when you exchange money... again... yummy. So bottom line... our favorite treats we've picked up: chocolate covered coffee beans, some kind of fruit/coffee marmalade, and coffee candy. I'm sure versions of these items can be found in the States, but I've never seen them in little Seaford.

Yes, I know I'm rambling, but I'm going stir crazy. This is what Jim did tonight - since we're staying at the hotel all day tomorrow, Jim said, "Since we're staying home tomorrow, let's...". What did he say?... "home"??? The servers keep telling us, "This you home, whatever you like". Sssshhhh... if you're quiet, you can hear me screaming. Honestly, I am saying all of this light heartily.

Oh, before I close... THANK YOU to everyone that helped with the Upward Soccer Ceremony tonight. It was such a blessing to know that everything was taken care of and we did not have to worry about a thing. Jim spoke with Jason tonight and found out everything went well and the entertainer/speaker that we hired did a fabulous job. Jim can't wait to speak with Pastor Ken tomorrow to find out how many people gave their heart to the Lord... remember basketball... we had 30 some children and few adults give their heart to the Lord for the first time (that was exciting!!). Basketball sign-ups begin November 19th... will we be there???? Mom, I'm joking, we'll be home soon.

We need your vote... Jim and I are going to rename ourselves. Which do you like better:

Instead of Sleepless in Seattle, do you like
-Going Mad in Medellin
-Crazy in Colombia
-Captive in Colombia

Buenas noches,
Kathy

Four weeks!!!

Hola,

Wow... can you believe that we left four (4) weeks ago?!?!? Hopefully, I won't be blogging this time next week and saying, "Can you believe that we left (5) weeks ago?" OOOHHHH, we won't go there...

Today was much like yesterday; nothing really new. I did begin to pack because when her birth certificate does arrive, we're going to have to move fast. Racquel, the director of Casa de Maria, called us today. We were hoping she was calling with good news, but she wanted to check in and see how we were doing. She said it could come Monday, Tuesday, who knows... we just need to be patient. She said that she realizes this is taking an extremely long time, but Putumayo is very far away. This thing with the distance we still don't understand; to us, if you express something, it doesn't matter that it's "X" amount of miles away. I guess we are very spoiled in our country by how quickly we can get everything.

Oh yeah, I forgot to tell you that yesterday the hotel sent to our room complimentary chocolate covered strawberries, cookies, and bottled water. Jim said to me jokingly, "Well I guess when you stay an entire month, that's what you get." This is horrible... the girls were in their room and they didn't know that the goodies had been delivered. We were so tempted not to tell them about it... those strawberries looked so good... BUT... we did call them in. I know there are a lot of chocolate lovers out there reading this that would have been tempted not to share also... I won't mention any names!!! You should have seen Belicia's face when she saw them. When she went to eat them, she was very careful not to eat the cap of the strawberries... this time!!! The other night at dinner we let the girls get the dessert bar. Well, Belicia got cheesecake with strawberries dipped in whipped cream. Bless her heart... she put the entire strawberry in her mouth... cap and all. Jim and I tried to stop her, but as she chewed, she realized something was wrong. We went and got another strawberry off the bar and explained that she's not to eat the green part. All four of us cracked up laughing... things we take for granted! Frazier family... I know you can relate!!

Well, if we don't hear anything tomorrow, we still want Gloria to come and pick us up and take us somewhere... anywhere. We may check out a museum or the botanical gardens. We know that the girls won't be thrilled, but at least it will be change of pace. We'd still love to go to a coffee plantation, but Jim's thinking that because the election was just today, Racquel will say it's still not safe; we will at least ask.

That's it for now...

Chao,
Kathy

Still no birth certificate

Hola,

I talked with Gloria today and she said that the birth certificate is still not ready. Fanny said that it would be here by today, but now it may not be until Monday or Tuesday when we receive it. Jim and I talked about things and he had me call Mom regarding the party they are throwing for Belicia. Since it looks as though we won't be home until Friday, Saturday, Sunday... or who knows when... I told Mom that the party should probably be moved to the following Friday. I think everyone is in agreement... there are too many unknowns. I did cancel my hotel reservations in NYC and our flight for Monday night.

Guess what the girls did today... they went swimming!!!! Jim said maybe tomorrow ... they can go swimming!!! How exciting!!! Actually, it's getting to be quite comical. Jim and I never had done a Sudoku puzzle before this trip, but now I've done so many that I was actually able to complete one on an expert level today. I'm really looking forward to getting home and getting back into the swing of things. We really can't complain because it is very nice here; we just miss home and all of you.

Chao,
Kathy

Quiet day

Hola,

Another gorgeous morning... they closed the inside hotel restaurant for breakfast and served it in the pool-side restaurant. Picture perfect weather... it was blue skies, in the low 70's, low humidity, and a very slight breeze. After we ate, we sat out by the pool until it began to get warm. We didn't let the girls go swimming until mid-afternoon; the sun here burns you very quickly... especially Bethany.

We ate dinner down by the pool because Jim and I wanted the salad bar. Tonight they didn't have any spinach or any really dark green lettuce on it. I asked our server if I could get some so I could make my salad with something healthier than iceberg... get this, he had the chef make me a special spinach salad. Oh, it was sooo good; they really take good care of us. Like most evenings here lately, it was a total down pour by the time we were finished eating. Again, the hotel is great... they supply oversized umbrellas for guests to use.

Tonight during story time, we began talking to Belicia about the fiesta next Friday. We told her it's a fiesta para Belicia (party for Belicia) to welcome her to the United States. We explained it will be at our church and there will be many family and friends there. She was soooo excited. She began to ask if Tia Colleen, Marie, Marisa, etc. would be there. We told her "yes". When she asked about Tia Twila, it was hard for us to explain that she lives in Atlanta, but I think she finally got it. She is definitely NOT thrilled about our weather and especially the thought of winter. When it's around 70 degrees here, she's saying "muy frio" (very cold). Jim and I just say, "Girl, you're in for quite a surprise if you think 70 degrees is cold." I'm putting her in a sweatsuit when we go to Bogota because it's in the mid-60's there... no shorts for her.

Well, not a lot going on, so I'm going to close.

Hasta luego,
Kathy

Thanks Debi!!

Debi, I just finished typing my blog for tonight and then I found your comment. I'm glad you've enjoyed our blog and good luck with your adoption. Thanks for the name of the bookstore. I'm wondering if it's the same one I read about on the Colombian Chat group. We may stay at the Embassy Suites in Bogota and someone mentioned that right around the corner from the hotel is a great English language bookstore/cafe. I really prefer looking through a book that I'm going to use for schooling vs. just blindly ordering on-line or from a catalog. Again, thank you!!

Buenas noches,
Kathy

Had a good day

Hola,

We had a nice day today. It was a beautiful morning, so after breakfast we walked out by the pool. We were told by Gloria yesterday that a couple was coming in from Denmark and picking up their new baby boy from Casa de Maria; Gloria was supposed to pick them up from our hotel at 11:15 a.m. this morning. We saw a couple sitting by the pool that were very fair skinned and very blond. We guessed that they were the couple from Denmark and we were right. We talked with them for awhile; they were very nice. Belicia actually recognized the name of their baby; they told her his name is Miguel and Belicia was able to tell them his last name.

Later Gloria took us to the San Diego Mall and we searched for Spanish math books. We looked in four places and they didn't have any, so I'll just order some on-line. The girls really wanted to come back to the hotel and swim, so we just came back and did not go to the zoo. Since we're going to be here a few more days, we picked up a BINGO game at Exito. We figured it's something we can all play, it was cheap, it's a small box for our luggage, and it can really help Belicia with learning her larger numbers in English.

I did speak with our representative in Bogota this evening; her name is Isabella. She said there is no way for us to be on our plane Monday night. When we get to Bogota, Belicia must first see the US doctor (afternoon appointments only). The next morning we must apply for her Visa, the next day we would actually receive her Visa.... THEN we can fly home. Todd and Di, it's safe to say we won't be in NYC Tuesday morning... sorry!!! It could be Wednesday, Thursday, or Friday. Jim has our Dads lined up to pick us up for Wednesday or Thursday. I'm not even going to think about coming home on Friday....

Well, the hotel is packed again; there's a big insurance convention going on through Saturday. They also were setting a camera crew by the pool. With the election being held this Sunday, the local news was covering a debate between the candidates. We are definitely staying at the "happenin' place"... always something going on.

My mind is definitely turning towards home. I'm beginning to think about the thousands of things to be done when I return... the gazillion financial questions Pastor Todd has for me (I'm smiling as I type this!!)... the laundry (oh my!!!, but we saved about $1,000 not having it done here)... the tons of personal and business mail to go through. At least I know, thanks to Colleen, Marie, and Dad, that the yard and house will be in perfect order... Colleen will even have groceries for us... THANK YOU!!! Last night while sleeping, Jim moved his foot and I, for the first time, thought it was Jasmine jumping up on our bed. Only a few more days!!!!

Chao,
Kathy

We finally got to meet Andres and Laura!

Hi Everyone,

We had a very nice time today... we got to meet Andres and Laura. They are a wonderful couple and we got to chat with them for about 1 1/2 hours while sitting down at the pool-side restaurant. They get their little baby boy on Friday; as you can imagine, they are very excited!!

The weather was beautiful this morning and into the early afternoon. Any guesses as to where we spent that time???? If you answered, "the pool", you are correct!!! Surprise, surprise... If we don't hear anything tomorrow from our attorney and it's nice weather, we may ask Gloria to bring us back to the zoo. The girls enjoyed it so much, plus I forgot my camera. I would of loved to have gotten pictures... we'll see.

I may ask around and see if anyone knows of a teacher's resource store here in town. I'd like to be able to find some math workbooks in Spanish. I've seen some items online, but I would prefer to look through some actual books. Belicia knows so much math and I want to be able to keep up on it.

That's about it for now...

Hasta luega,
Kathy

WE GOT SENTENCIA TODAY!!

Hola Mis Amigos,

Gloria called first thing this morning and said that nothing was ready at the courthouse yet, so we made plans to meet her at 11:15 a.m. to go to the zoo. We were just getting ready to walk out of our room and the phone rang. It was Gloria stating that our papers were ready and Jim or I needed to go sign the documents. Since Jim was wearing shorts, he was not allowed to go, so I went instead. Fanny said that instead of a person going to Putumayo (it's an 18 hour drive), she decided to Express the documents. For some strange reason, she says the birth certificate won't be back until probably Saturday. Jim thinks their version of Express must be "The Pony Express". Anyway, there are way too many variables to go into. Bottom line... they way Fanny is talking, we won't be on the plane Monday night unless God intervenes. I won't confuse you with all the details, but I'll keep you updated.

At court today, I got to meet Gloria's son-in-law and a very close friend of hers (he was her deceased husband's best friend). Apparently the gentleman is a prominent defense attorney here in Medellin. He bought Gloria and me a frozen coffee that, believe it or not, was better than Starbucks!! It was VERY good!! I was completely caught off guard by this man... he knew I was married and was there for an adoption, but still he told me several times that he thought I was beautiful... then he gives me his business card and told me if I ever need an "escort", call him... THEN as he shakes my hand, he gives me a kiss.... yuck, yuck, yuck... I told Gloria that I really wish Jim came instead!!!! She was laughing and thought it was funny...

Later in the afternoon, we went to the zoo. Belicia had never been to one and she really enjoyed it. It was rather nice and we got to see some animals that we've never seen before. When we returned to the hotel, the girls went where??? Of course, to the pool.

Oh yeah, I forgot to mention on my blog last night that we were able to give the lady in housekeeping her gift. Jim had the concierge find her and bring her to our room. It's one of those things that the Lord prompted both of us to do and we are trusting Him that our gift will somehow impact her life.

I want to thank each of you that have been praying for us. This is not an easy journey and I believe your prayers have help strengthen me. You know Jim... easy going... Mr. Calm. He has handled everything beautifully. He's been a great husband and wonderful Papa' (as Belicia calls him) through everything. The three of us chicas (girls) are very blessed to have him!! Well, we should be winding down in a few more days. We can't wait to see each and every one of you!! Todd and Diane... hopefully we will see you in NYC!!!

Buenas noches,
Kathy

Finally... blue skies!!!

Hola,

We finally had blue skies and were able to get out!! We began our morning with surprising, yet disappointing news. We went to breakfast and the couple from NYC told us that they were leaving for Bogota in 1 1/2 hours... I had tears in my eyes. If we were not in a public place, I would of cried. Joanne told me that when they came here two years ago, this happened to them. A couple arrived eight days after them and left before them; she said she did cry. They arrived here one week after us. Come to find out, they were in Court #3 (the fastest court) and we found out today that we are in Court #13 (the slowest court). They found out their good news last night at dinner. Come to find out Eduardo and Fanny drove to get their baby's birth certificate without the couple knowing about it; Fanny wanted to surprise them.

When we went to Casa de Maria today, Fanny was there and told Gloria that our papers are ready except for one (1) signature. The person that is supposed to sign it should come in tomorrow and sign our documents. We met Eduardo today when he came to pick up the couple from NYC to take them to the airport. He is Racquel's (director of the orphanage) son and he was able to clarify why we need to stay here additional time after we receive Sentencia. He said that Fanny's sister will take a bus (not a plane) to Putumayo and pick up Belicia's birth certificate. Putumayo is very far from here and that's what takes so much time.

While speaking with Eduardo, he asked how things were going and we explained some of what we were dealing with. He suggested that since we were going to Casa de Maria, we should speak with Belicia's counselor. Again, it was a wonderful opportunity for us and for Belicia. Basically we were told that what is going on is very normal. They said that she always did a great job following rules. She has never had material items or options regarding what to eat, wear, play with, etc. Now she's learning that there's more out there in this world than what she's been accustomed to. They said that she's trying to figure out her place in our family and how she has to behave to get what she wants... where are the boundaries? We were told that we are doing an excellent job with being firm and standing behind what we expect out of her. Her counselor talked to her and told her that she needed to obey us and do what we ask... without whining. She needs to use words... no whining; she's a big girl. It's been great having the orphanage close by; they've been wonderful.

FYI - We will be referring to Windy from now on as Belicia (Bay lee see ah). She absolutely loves the name; she told Gloria today that she thought her new name is very beautiful and she likes it. That's an answer to prayer!!

This afternoon was absolutely gorgeous, so the girls got to spend time in the pool. Later we went across the street for dinner and then, Bethany and I had some "Mommy/Bethany" time over coffee and dessert. Jim and Belicia played games together.

Lori, to answer your question about her glasses... actually, she's doing great without them. She does have 20/20 in her right eye. We have an eye doctor's appointment scheduled for her when we return. I showed our doctor the Colombian report and she said it was no big deal and that the condition can probably be corrected with the proper glasses. If not, she said it would be a minor laser surgery. Yep, I've got all kinds of appointments for her when we return... doctor, dentist, eye doctor, and hair stylist.

Laura, have a great flight tomorrow and I'm looking forward to hearing from you and finally getting to meet you!!

Well, going to close... we'll see if we get Sentencia tomorrow.

Chao,
Kathy

Stayed in our room all day

Hola,

We had a very lazy day today. I, personally, never left our room; it rained most of the day. I slept in and Jim brought me an omelette up from the restaurant. We were supposed to go to the other couples' room tonight, but they ended up going to their interpreter/driver's home for dinner. We were invited, but we thought it best not to go. Belicia (we're calling her that more and more now) has been, to put in nicely, very much of a challenge these last couple of days. We did not want to go to someone's house and have to deal with another "episode".

Tomorrow, Fanny is going to go to court and find out what is happening with our case. Hopefully, it will be good news. Sorry, but not a ton of stuff going on.

Buenas noches,
Kathy

We ventured out today

Hi All,

Before I begin with our adventure today, I just want to clear something up. When I mentioned that someone would have to go to Putumayo to get Windy's birth certificate, I did not mean one of us. I'm sorry for unnecessarily alarming some of you; I should of mentioned it would NOT be us... sorry about that.

Gloria was still sick today and it was cloudy, cool, with off and on rain. I really just wanted to get out, so I went to Jenny and asked if we could hire a driver. She lined us up with one, but then he called and was not able to make it. We asked the hotel for someone else and the bell captain, that has been a huge help to us, hooked us up. The guy drove a taxi (which made me nervous because we've been told over and over not to take a taxi), but come to find out in order for a taxi to clear through the hotel's gate, they have to be on their "approved list" and have had security checks performed. The driver was really nice and asked us what kind of bookstore it was that we wanted to go to. We told him it was a Christian bookstore and then he told us that he was a Christian and his wife is from Canada. When we got in close proximity of the store (which wasn't in the greatest neighborhood), the driver realized he went past it and started driving backwards in heavy traffic!! Then another driver really got mad with him (something having to do with a parking space), parked his car, got out and came over to us. They proceeded to yell at each other; our driver later told us that he was telling this other guy to show some respect, he had people (meaning us) from out of the country with him... if he wanted to fight, he'd fight him later. NYC taxis are a delight compared to today's ride. When we finally found the store, it was closed (they closed because of the rain... how crazy is that??). The driver took us to a mall that he said would have a Christian bookstore in it. The mall was huge, but not nearly as nice as the other one we had visited. It was so packed with people and was filled with horribly, loud live music and emcees... I just wanted to leave. The girls and I needed to use the bathroom and, silly me, why would I expect to find toilet seats on the toilets and toilet paper in the stalls??? Shouldn't I have known that the toilet paper was in the hallway leading to the bathroom?!?!?! I was so irritated by this point, but the driver was really nice to us and was trying to help us find the Christian bookstore in the mall... I just kept a smile on my face. Long story short, finally we found out that the store had gone out of business, but a church operated out of the fourth floor and had a very, very small selection of items to purchase. We were able to find something for the housekeeper and bought a couple of items for Windy. By this time, Bethany was getting a headache from the loud music and I told Jim that we needed to go back to the hotel. Get this, the driver was throwing a birthday party for his wife tonight. He invited us over, he calls his wife from his cell, then he hands me the phone (in the mall with all the loud music) and tells me to chat with her... I'm sorry, but it was a very strange day today. Jim and I both agreed that it was not wise to go to a stranger's house for a party. I was so glad to make it back to the hotel safe and sound. I left out a lot of details; it would take way too long to type out everything, but believe me when I say, we are never doing that again.

We are going to stay at the hotel tomorrow. We're going to hang out with the couple from NYC tomorrow night in their suite. We're going to order in Chinese... that way the children can play and we won't upset any servers at a restaurant. It will be much safer and more relaxed.

Chao,
Kathy

Happy 75th Birthday, Mom!!

Hola,

Colleen and Marie, thanks so much for the pictures you sent me of today... should I post them?!?!? You know I'm joking... you guys would want to hurt me when I get home. Everybody, they sent me some crazy pictures of themselves having fun with Mom at the mall. I'm glad they had a good time. Nancy and Tina, Mom really loved the message you left her... thanks!!

Unfortunately, Gloria has had a relapse of this virus going around. She told Vicki this morning that she would call us when got home from the hospital, but we haven't heard from her; we're praying that she's okay.

We took advantage of the beautiful day and the girls spent several hours in the pool. They also have enjoyed over the last couple of days playing "Narnia". Windy absolutely loves the movie and has watched it over and over (we play it in Spanish and use English sub-titles). They dress up as Queen Lucy and Queen Susan; it's quite comical because they are speaking two different languages, not understanding much of what the other is saying, but having a great time.

We had wanted to go to a local Christian book store and search for some Latino Christian music for Windy. The concierge has been so helpful. Jim got into a conversation with her yesterday and come to find out she's a Christian. She told Jim about how she grew up Catholic and didn't have a relationship with Jesus. About six years ago, something really bad happened in her life and she took her father's pistol (he's a police officer) and was going to commit suicide. She said that as she was about to, she heard a voice telling her not to do it and that God loves her. She felt a prompting to pick up the phone and she began dialing a number... she was just dialing... it wasn't a number she was familiar with. Come to find out it was a Christian church's prayer/help line. She was all alone... sobbing... soaked her pillow in tears as she talked to the counselor. While doing this she felt a hand rubbing up and down her back comforting her... at that point she gave her heart to Jesus!! As she talked to Jim and found out that we are a Christian family, she said that she knew there was something different about us. Anyway, there is a lady in housekeeping that is seven months pregnant. Jim and I both felt a prompting to do something for her. Remember, like Pastor Todd prayed before we left, that we are not here just for our adoption, but that God would use us to touch someone else's life. We've filled up a gift bag full of baby goodies to give to her. We've only seen her twice and when we asked Jenny, the concierge, about her, she said she really didn't know... they have so many in housekeeping. Last night we prayed that God would help us find her; this morning Jenny gave us her name. She did some research and found out which lady she was. I really feel lead to give her something for herself... maybe a book in Spanish... maybe a Joyce Meyer book. That's another reason we wanted to go to the Christian bookstore. Jenny gave us the name, address, and phone number of her favorite one. I say all of this only because we would love to have your prayers for this mother. The father wants nothing to do with her or the baby, she makes minimum wage ($200 per month), and has to live with her parents. Her name is Narvey. Please pray that the Lord will guide us as to what we should get her... a book, music...? Pray that the Lord will touch her life and that our small gift will greatly impact her life.

Laura, yes, it looks as though we will actually get to meet!! Call us when you get into town... our room numbers are 656 and 658. That would be great... all of the other adopting families have left except for the couple from NYC.

Well, going to turn in for the night.

Hasta luego,
Kathy

Day at the mall

Hi Everyone,

Bethany is no longer sick... I'm so glad! We were able to get out today; we went to the El Tesoro Mall. I do apologize because the night we went to Archie's Pizza, I told you that we went to the Oviedo Mall. We asked Gloria to take us there, but come to find out today, she actually took us to El Tesoro. I noticed as we approached it that it looked very familiar... I told you that her English comprehension is not the greatest, but she's super nice. The mall has a great little outside amusement park in the middle of it. Windy has never been on rides, so she loved it. Bethany only enjoyed a few things because most were geared towards younger children. They had a pet store that the girls enjoyed. Next to the pet store was a music store... Mom, Bethany got to play the piano! She was so happy and I think the gentleman at the store was quite surprised when he heard her play. He was making comments in Spanish, but I do not have a clue as to what he was saying. It was soooo nice to hear her play. Later, we ate in the food court and found out how different people really are. Bethany ordered an apple soda; when she went to drink it, there was a dead fly in it. Jim brought it back to the gentleman and showed it to him. The gentleman took the fly out with a spoon and gave the drink back to Jim!!! Obviously, Jim told him "no thank you" and asked for a new drink.... how gross!!

Well, we found out some discouraging news today. Gloria said that since Windy was not born here in Medellin, when we receive Sentencia, we will not be able to leave the next day and go to Bogota like we thought. She said that once we receive Sentencia, someone has to physically go to her home town (by plane) and get her birth certificate. We've been told now that it will be another three to four days AFTER Sentencia before we can even go to Bogota. We really, really want to come home and this is very frustrating. Please continue to pray that everything will come together so we can make it home as scheduled. I do thank the Lord for Joyce Meyer, laptops, and the internet. I was able to watch a sermon of hers that I desperately needed to hear.

Tomorrow, October 19th, is Mom's 75th birthday!! I hope you have a great day with Sherry, Colleen, Marie, and Marisa. I wish we were there to celebrate... love you!!

Buenas noches,
Kathy

Still nothing from the court...

This is the pool-side restaurant that I've mentioned several times. Our wonderful server, Walter, is talking to the girls while they swim.



Hola,

We didn't hear anything today; today is the 10th business day after we filed the adoption papers. Our adoption agency told us that they have 10 business days to review our papers. IF this holds true, then we should definitely hear something tomorrow... key word is "if". The family from Norway got theirs finalized yesterday and left for Bogota this afternoon. Theirs only took six business days... it all depends which court and whose desk your papers land on.

We stayed around the hotel today. Bethany is not still 100%; when her medicine wears off, she ends up with a fever. She feels a lot better, but doesn't have a big appetite. I'm just glad she's not having any stomach problems.

Well, we went three days without any testing from Windy, but she decided today would be an entire day of testing. Sadly, she ended up missing out on a couple of things today, but we are seeing progress. We're discovering she can understand more and more English everyday. Get this... tonight Jim explained something very clearly to her in Spanish using words and phrases that we've been using successfully in communicating with her. She said "no comprendo"... we knew better... she's a character!!!

Something I forgot to share last night regarding some information regarding the poverty in this country. Jim was told by Gloria and one of the workers here at the hotel that minimum wage here is about $200 per month... month NOT week. That is so sad. Between seeing what we saw yesterday and hearing this, it makes us appreciate even more all the many blessings God has given us and the great nation in which we live!!!

Actually, since I've been typing, Jim's been on the phone with Gloria. She said she spoke with our attorney today. Fanny said that the court said our papers were not ready today and they won't be ready tomorrow either. Well, like we said, it's all in the Lord's hands... we'll leave when we leave. He has a purpose for us being here this long. We'll see how the weather is tomorrow; if it's good, we may go to the zoo.

Chao,
Kathy

Up the mountain and house call #3... yes... #3

View as we went up the mountain

We saw a VERY different side of Medellin... extreme poverty... as far as we could see... very sad




A school

Que tal! (Hi!),

Bethany didn't make it through the night; she got up around 4:00 a.m. with a high fever and got sick again. At 8:00 a.m. she was fine and by 9:00 her fever was back up to 102.9. Bethany and I stayed in while Jim and Windy went to the orphanage and got her passport photos. Jim called around 1:30 p.m. and Bethany was feeling good and really wanted to get out (me too!!). We met in the lobby and headed out with Gloria to go up the mountain. As we were getting on the Metro to get the metro-car, we all noticed Windy was getting very quiet. Come to find out she had never been on a Metro; it was very crowded and she was scared. As we were riding the Metro and heading towards the metro-car, we noticed the change in scenery. It was endless miles of poverty. Boy did we feel like a minority and we were getting a ton of stares. Jim heard someone say something about "Gringos". I told Jim to get used to the stares because we are going to get a ton of them in the US, but for other reasons. It's okay because it truly does not bother me and I'm proud that we are adopting from another culture. Anyway... after we got off the Metro and got into the metro-car and headed up the mountain, Windy began feeling much more relaxed and enjoyed the rest of the trip. Near the end, Bethany began to feel bad again. Come to find out, Gloria, her brother, and the counselor from the orphanage had all been sick over the weekend. Gloria said that there is a virus going around because of the rain (her daughter is a doctor here in Medellin). When we returned to the hotel, Bethany's fever was very high again. Since we know that we will have to travel to Bogota soon and then back to the US, we wanted to be sure that this was a virus and not a bacterial infection. The doctor came to our room and examined her. She said the exact same thing Gloria said... she said it's almost like an epidemic that spreads when the weather is like this. She offered Bethany either a shot for her fever and pain or pills.... well, obviously we all know which one she chose. The translator from the hotel went downstairs to the hotel pharmacy and picked up her medicine and brought it to us. She is feeling much better, but then again the pill is supposed to last eight hours. We'll see how tomorrow goes.

The following is some interesting information you may enjoy; I borrowed it from Laura's blog:

October is Colombian National Adoption Month

Some statistics about Colombian adoptions:(from 2005)
3,542 Children adopted
1,484 Adopted by Colombian families
2,058 Adopted by foreign families
3,046 Adopted through ICBF (Colombian foster system)
496 Adopted through Casa Privadas (private adoption homes/orphanages)
291 US immigrant visas issued for adoptions from Colombia
Only about 10% of all foreign adoptions in Colombia are to US families. Most are to Europe and Australia I believe. Of the adoptions in 2005 they are almost evenly split between boys and girls. With the closing of most Guatemalan adoptions I suspect we will see an increase in the requests for adoptions in Colombia from Americans, especially as families that have already adopted from Guatemala are looking for a Latino sibling for their child/ren.

Thanks Laura for this information.

I may have mentioned that we have not been able to get Windy to eat any vegetables. We haven't really tried hard; I figured we will work on that at home. Jim and I assumed she probably never really had to eat them... well, we were wrong. While Jim was at the orphanage, the counselor told him that she had veggies everyday... she ate lettuce, tomatoes, and carrots with dressing. She also said that when Windy said that she loves "sopa" (soup), she is probably talking about what they fixed there. Basically it was pureed carrots and peas... a.k.a. baby food. The soup here is in rich sauces and way too much for her. It was really funny tonight because Jim sat her on the bed and told her that he spoke with her counselor. He took out her Spanish/English picture dictionary. He told her that he was told that she used to eat (as he pointed to the various veggies) carrots, lettuce, and tomatoes. She just said ahhhhhhhhh!!!! He said, "In Ingles (English)... you're busted!!!" The orphanage told Jim that she ate whatever was put down in front of her; she's never had choices. This tells me exactly how I am going to have to handle her eating... like Jim said, "Busted!!!"

I'm going to close. Windy just came in and wanted to pray for the children at Casa de Maria... I know the Lord has great plans for her!!!

Chao,
Kathy

Getting a little tired of the "lazy day"

Hola Mis Amigos,

Yes, after three days at the hotel, I'm ready to get out. I was really looking forward to getting out all day tomorrow, but I'm not sure if I'm going to get to go. When Bethany woke up this morning, she told me her stomach was bothering her and it had been hurting throughout the night. Luckily I was in my bathroom doing my hair, because as she's telling me this, she proceeds to get sick. I really thought it was from her steak last night because after that, she was great. Late this afternoon she began to complain of not feeling well and she had a low grade fever. I really knew she wasn't feeling well because after dinner (we ordered in), she didn't want to go out for our "Mommy and Bethany" date. Just before bed, she had a fever of 101.2 and this was about 1/2 hr. after I had given her Advil. Boy did she begin to cry... "I just want to go home". Oh, did I feel bad for her. We got the girls into bed and I laid with them until they both fell asleep. I'm praying that the Lord will protect her from any serious illnesses while we are here. If she's not better in the morning, I'll stay with her and Jim and Windy will go out with Gloria. Windy is excited about seeing her friends at the orphanage. When I say "friends", I don't believe it's the children; I believe it's the adults there that she loves to visit.

Like I said, we didn't do much today. The girls spent a ton of time at the pool and playing ping-pong. Hopefully tomorrow we'll have some good news from our attorney... we'll see.

Hasta luego,
Kathy

Crazy weather!!

Hola,

This is the craziest weather we have ever experienced. We wake up and the mountain is covered in clouds, we come back from breakfast and the sky is blue, we go swimming and it starts to rain, so we come back up to the room and by the time the girls are done showering, it is sunny again. An hour later the sky is super dark and it's storming, an hour later it's clearing up and we go out to eat, by the time we are done eating it is raining again. Unbelievable!!!

We did enjoy our time at the pool today. They had a violinist in the pool-side restaurant; it was so nice to lay back and listen to the beautiful classical music. Believe it or not, Bethany has said a few times the last couple of days that she misses her violin. In addition, when we've gone into restaurants, she looks around for a piano. Unfortunately we haven't found one.

Tonight we went to dinner across the street again to the Colombian restaurant. The family from NYC joined us. It was so nice to have conversation with another American couple, but it was a little crazy with four children. I think the servers were very happy to see us leave; they were very nice, but you could tell it was wearing on them. Again, the meal was very good.

In the gift shop here at the hotel, I picked up a cookbook entitled "The Medellin Gourmet". It's an international cookbook written by the women here in Medellin. Many of the recipes looked fairly simple, so I thought another cookbook wouldn't hurt. I just want a good variety of dishes that Windy is going to enjoy eating.

Jennifer, according to the doctor, Windy's nosebleeds that day came from where she got bumped in the nose. Fortunately, we have not had anymore incidents.

Marie, the girls did get your notes and Windy said that she could understand hers. I think she really enjoyed it... thanks!!

Jim and I both want to thank all of you that have kept us in prayer and for all of you that have sent encouraging words. It has all meant so much to us... thank you!!

The hotel has emptied out... how nice; it's much quieter. Well, that's about it for today.

Chao,
Kathy

Lazy day

Hi Everyone,

Not much to tell about today. Bethany woke up feeling perfectly fine... thank you, Lord! The hotel is absolutely packed; there is not a room available. For several hours today, there were tons of police on motorcycles down in the parking lot along with a line of about 15 vans and Suburbans... we have not seen a large SUV here at all up until today. Remember this all has to do with the official that is visiting from the USA. They left mid-afternoon and just returned. Security is everywhere... even on our floor.

We spent several hours by the pool today and just finished eating at the new pool-side restaurant ... very nice. We met a family from Norway that just got their 2 1/2 yr. old little girl. They just put in for another baby/toddler and were told it would be a five year wait!!!

Windy is definitely still trying to find out what she can get away with. Yesterday we had no issues, but today has been an entirely different story. All I can say is to please keeping praying for us.

Well, not a whole lot more to tell... my shortest blog yet.

Buenas noches,
Kathy

We had a good day!

Gloria took us to an open-air, thatched roof restaurant in a small town outside of Medellin. Since we had recently eaten a big breakfast, we just got dessert... very good!!

The horse came out and "danced" to Colombian music...different, but very interesting.

Call me crazy (and Jim did when I came out of the bathroom, grabbed my camera, and headed back in), but I had to take pictures of their bathroom. Between the sunshine (remember... open-air) and everything painted bright blue, I literally had to squint when I walked in... it was sooo bright. Get this... the wooden table with the blue pad is a Colombian baby changing station; Gloria said they are quite common throughout their country. I thought it was so cool, I had to show it to all of you.
These two pictures are of the town the restaurant was in. It was really nice to see something different than the big city. Cattle along with high rises... again... different, but very interesting. Bethany keeps calling everything weird and I tell her it's not weird... it's just different and that's what makes other cultures so very fascinating.



Hola,

The photos above tell about the first part of our day. When we returned to the hotel late this afternoon, it was blue skies and warm, so the girls wanted to go swimming. We thought it would be a great night to eat by the pool. By the time we got down there, the temperatures dropped and clouds were rolling in. The girls still went swimming, but after awhile Jim and I ordered a pot of coffee with hot milk and I wrapped up in a towel. It was absolutely crazy around there; there's a lot going on here. Tonight was the grand re-opening of the pool-side restaurant,the medical convention is still going on, and there's something tomorrow having to do with the President of the United States Chamber of Commerce. While we were out by the pool, an official Colombian helicopter landed on top of the hotel; the girls, and everyone else standing around staring, thought it was the coolest thing. Earlier in the day, a lady at the front desk told Jim that security was going to be raised considerably because of his arrival; we figured it was probably him arriving. They had pool guys all over the place scrubbing down signs, tables, etc. "Big-wigs" had on their headsets checking all details. Sadly, we have found many of the medical people are extremely rude to the children. You can tell they are annoyed with the girls as they push their way ahead of them off elevators and through doorways. Luckily the staff treats them as princesses and are absolutely wonderful.

Something quick and funny that I wanted to share... Windy's trying her hardest to speak English. She keeps telling people "thank you very much", but it comes out "thunk you verrrry mows"... she rolls that "r" and the "much" almost sounds like "mouse". A couple people have commented thinking she is saying "thank you very mouse". Bless her heart, she is trying.

Yes, Jim's ear is feeling much better. He's able to hear again! I just hope Bethany hasn't caught anything because of the pool's lack of chlorine. She was not feeling well at all during dinner. She did not have a fever; I gave her some Advil and she was fast asleep by 8:15 p.m. I'm hoping she'll be back to herself in the morning.

Monday is a holiday here, Columbus Day, so with the long weekend, we really did not want to leave the hotel and deal with the crowds. We're going to hang out here for the next three days and on Tuesday we're going to head back to the orphanage; Windy wants to visit again. We'll most likely get her photos for her Colombian passport that same day. I spoke with Gloria privately today and she told me she spoke with our attorney. Gloria is saying that Fannie didn't really say a lot, but Gloria says that she (meaning Gloria) really believes that we are going to get Sentencia (adoption finalized) on Tuesday. I looked back at Gina's blog and it was 1 1/2 weeks from Sentencia until they were back in Houston. It doesn't take many business days for the process, but it's the weekends that really spreads it out. Pray that it will come through Tuesday or Wednesday so we can get out of here on time and not need to have new airline tickets issued.

Marie, yes, I am receiving your emails and your posts. I will try, again, to call you over the weekend...love you, sweetie!!

Chao,
Kathy

A few pictures

Bethany and Windy having their swim lesson this morning.



View from our room

Hola,

Bethany and Windy had a swim lesson this morning. It was somewhat helpful to Bethany, but not as much as we hoped because the instructor's English is very limited. Either way she had fun and they spent about 2 1/2 hours swimming. Later, while I washed my hair, Jim took the girls downstairs for ice cream and a couple rounds of miniature golf.

We wanted to go across the street to the Colombian restaurant, Hatovierjo, for dinner; we'd been told by several people here how good it is. Throughout the entire day we noticed that a police officer had been on the side of the mountain and I heard a round of about 10 loud "booms" earlier, so Jim thought he had better go down to the front desk and make sure it was safe to leave the premises. They said it was okay and that the extra officer was there for additional security because of the medical convention going on. We went across to the restaurant and it was VERY good!! It was decorated in bright Colombian decor and it was quite amusing trying to communicate our needs and meal choices since the servers spoke very, very little English.

I don't think I've ever mentioned the security here. Todd and Diane... much like when we were in Israel... maybe even more. There are armed guards everywhere. When you enter any parking lot (hotel, mall, grocery store, tourist attraction, etc), they are there. At the mall, they use a mirror to check under your car and then they check your trunk. They are even in the lobby of our hotel; we definitely feel safe. There were two up on top of the mountain yesterday when we went to that little replica town. I told Jim we should ask if we could get their picture with the girls; he didn't like that idea. Diane, if you were here, we would have... remember... we had our picture taken with the armed guard by The Dead Sea. I still think it would have been a great picture... not Jim.

Tomorrow afternoon we are going to go out with Gloria to a restaurant that Gina told us about. They have a horse show during your meal. Bethany is going to love it... especially since she's having Sophia withdraws!!

I'd like to fill in our family and friends as to who the mystery Gina and Laura are that I keep mentioning. Gina and her husband, Jim, are a couple from Houston that adopted two beautiful children (Yamile and Jorge) from Medellin and also stayed at the Intercontinental this past summer. I have been following their blog for many months. Gina has been a HUGE help with making us feel comfortable coming here and knowing what to expect. She gave us tons of tips as to the hotel, what to bring, places to see, how to handle money, etc. Any question that I had, I was able to email her and she would answer right away... THANKS Gina!!! Laura and her husband, Andres, live in Atlanta and will be here in about 1 1/2 weeks to pick up their new little baby boy! Mateo's 1st birthday is today, but they'll be here soon enough to have a birthday party for him. Laura's husband is from Colombia and has family right here in Medellin. Laura, as well as Gina, has been very encouraging throughout our journey. Since she's been here several times, she's been able to give me many tips on Medellin... THANK YOU!!!

Oh, I almost forgot, FYI... Windy is not from this area. She is from Putumayo; the very southern part of Colombia. Laura, I think your idea is wonderful, but she's only been here since August 18, 2007. I'm sorry, but I guess that is something I failed to mention. Putumayo is a place that we will never be able to visit... WAY too dangerous. The orphanage told us that this is the area where they harvest cocaine 3-4 times a year and to not even think about trying to go there... you don't have to tell us twice!!

Buenos noches,

Kathy

Battle of the Wills... guess who won?

Last night, Jim playing basketball with Windy on American Girl's website

Sightseeing today at the little replica town (couldn't seem to catch the name of it no matter how many times Gloria said it)



Tonight - Jim teaching Windy how to play Go Fish. They played most of the game in Spanish; they had so much fun.

Tonight - Story time


Hi,

We had a "lovely" beginning to our day today. Without going into details, we had a small battle of the wills this morning over shoes and going down to breakfast. Her therapist told us how she tries to get her way and to definitely not give into it or we will have serious problems later (we already understood that aspect parenting). Bottom line, Jim placed her on her bed while she cried and I explained to her that until she did what we were asking her to do, she and I were not going down to breakfast. Jim and Bethany left and in about two minutes she stopped crying. I went into her room and talked with her and she was finally ready to comply and join Papa and Bethany for breakfast. I hope she learns quickly that my will is much stronger than hers and crying in those types of situations have no effect on me. We walked down the hall to the elevator and she told me "te amos" (I love you) and asked for besos (kisses). When we walked into the restaurant, Jim was so happy; he said he was praying for us.

We didn't get her passport photo taken today; we're going to do that Friday. We did, however, go to the notary public for the papers for immigration. After that, we went to a small area that is a replica town of the way things used to be. It had a parsonage, church, school, etc. It had an incredible view of the city. Laura, we didn't even have to ask Gloria about it; that is where she suggested going this morning. I think she tries to keep everything in close proximity. The notary was near this attraction and when we go out Friday, the office for passports is on the side of the city where we need to go to take the metro-car up the mountain.

Tonight for dinner Windy asked to eat in our room which was fine with Jim and me. I asked the girls if they wanted to split a cheeseburger and fries and they said, "yes". When dinner arrived, Windy said she didn't want it and wanted chips instead. We knew she liked the burger because we ordered it by the pool the other night and she thoroughly enjoyed it. We basically put her plate on the table and figured she would eat when she got hungry. After about 15 minutes, she finally sat at the table and ate her fries, but then she came to us not wanting to finish her meal and asking for chips again. What she didn't know was that Jim and I were already prepared for her in Spanish (we used on-line translation) because we knew she was going to try not eating her dinner and ask for junk food. When I was able to speak to her in complete sentences and she understood what I was saying, she just made a noise "mmmmmmm" and went back to the table and finished. She is definitely trying to answer the question, "Where are the boundaries?"

I just ordered from Barnes & Noble the Colombian cookbook Laura and Gina recommended. Ladies, the one you recommended was the same one I wanted to get after looking on-line last night. It will be at home waiting for me when we return. Thanks to both of you for all of your help throughout our journey; you've been a blessing to us!!

For all of you Joyce Meyer fans, we're watching her right now in Spanish. Unfortunately, they are not using the English sub-titles, but it's funny because I've watched her so much I know some of what she's saying.

Nancy, Jim wanted me to tell you, "Muy bien, MaMa... te amos!!"

Chao,
Kathy